 On our invitations and at the bottom of the link bar
on the left you'll see a Chinese symbol. Each half of the symbol is the standard character
for happiness, written "hsi" or "xi." Two "hsi"
graphs together represents the wish for the two young
newlyweds to have happiness together and is symbolic of
their union. The double happiness graph is a special
Chinese character used for marital happiness and is not
used in regular Chinese writing or printing.
Here is the story of how it originated:
In the
ancient Tang Dynasty, there was a student who was on the
way to the capital to attend the national final
examination, in which the top scorers would be selected
as the ministers in the court. Unfortunately, he
fell ill halfway as he was passing through a mountain
village. An herbalist doctor and his daughter took
him into their house and treated him well. He
recovered quickly due to the father and the daughter's
good care, and over the course of his recovery, he and
the girl fell in love. When he had to leave, he found it hard
to say good-bye, and so did she, so the girl wrote down
the right hand part of an antithetical couplet for the
student to match while he was away:
"Green trees against the sky in the spring rain while
the sky set off the spring trees in the obscuration."
He told her he would match it as soon as he had
finished his examinations and resumed his journey to the
capital city.
In the examination the young man was one of the
highest scorers and was noticed by the emperor. As
the final stage of the examinations, the highest scorers
were interviewed by the emperor. As luck
would have it, he was asked by the emperor to finish the
right hand part of a
couplet.
The emperor wrote:
"Red flowers dot the land in the breeze's chase while
the land colored up in red after the kiss."
The young man realized immediately the right half of
the girl's couplet was the perfect fit for the
emperor's half, so he gave the girl's part as the
answer without hesitation. The emperor was delighted to
see his half of the couplet so skillfully and
harmoniously matched that he made the young man a
minister in the court and allowed him to pay a visit
home before taking the post. The young
man met the girl happily at home and told her the
emperor's couplet. They were soon married, and for
the wedding, the couple doubled the Chinese character
meaning "happy" together on a red piece of paper and put it on
the wall to express the happiness for the two events.
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